private, 1-1 dating coaching:
for men serious about finding her
From $599
If you’re tired of searching “first date tips for men” and “Hinge prompts for guys”, or if you find yourself wondering why dating is so hard in Singapore - you’re in the right place.
Here, we move beyond quick fixes and generic AI advice. Meet Dating Deep Dives - a tailored coaching programme for men who want to build the habits, confidence and clarity that actually change your dating life.
if you met the right one tomorrow,
would you be ready?
The Dating Deep Dive is portmanteau’s most personalised coaching programme. Instead of following a fixed curriculum, we work backwards from your goals, and build a practical plan around what you actually need.
what you get:
✓ Discovery call to understand your goals
✓ A fully tailored proposal catered to your needs, budget and timeline
✓ 3+ sessions of personalised, private coaching for you to achieve your dating goals, and/or real-life practice sessions to gain natural confidence
✓ Text support between sessions
Add-ons like personal shopping are available
you’ll leave with:
✓ Transformation of your dating mindset, values and beliefs
✓ Confidence in what makes you attractive
✓ The ability to communicate better on dates and create actual, genuine connection
✓ Outfits you’ll actually wear beyond dates
before
Scarcity mindset on apps
Hoping for chemistry
Small talk and “how about you?”
Wearing your SG Uniqlo uniform
Dating fatigue and wondering if you’ll ever find someone
Not being sure what you’re looking for
after
Swiping with intention and confidence
Creating real connection to escalate naturally
Conversations she remembers
Knowing what suits you
Certainty that you’ll find the right one for you
Clarity on what your values, beliefs and dating goals are
designed around your goals
Every Deep Dive begins with a conversation so we understand where you are, where you're headed and what's standing in the way.
We use the portmanteau framework to build your Intensive around your priorities, based on:
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Your personal style and wardrobe, with date outfits that actually flatter you and make you confident in yourself.
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Identify and work on any limiting beliefs you may have - whether it’s self-confidence, anxiety that she’s not texting back, or anything else.
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How to ask questions and hold a conversation that actually creates momentum, not just “how about you?”
this is for you if:
✅ You're serious about a real relationship, not just keeping your options open
✅ You're done calling "being on the apps" a strategy
✅ You're willing to get specific about what you actually want, even if it's uncomfortable
✅ You want to put in the work to build a healthy relationship
this is not for you if:
❌ You’re looking for tricks, a script, or if you think dating is just a game
❌ You’re convinced the problem is entirely other people
❌ You’re just waiting for fate to send the “right one” without doing anything about it
❌ You just want validation, not an honest read
❌ You’re not willing to change anything - you just want someone who magically meets all your criteria to materialise d
why work with me?
I’m Wan Ting, ICF-trained coach, former HR professional, and founder of portmanteau. Over the years, I've worked with hundreds of people through recruitment, coaching, and image consulting.
✔️ Currently completing my ICF ACC accreditation - a globally-recognised coaching certification, which means every session is held to a rigorous, professional standard with structured frameworks.
✔️ Certified Image Consultant - with hundreds of happy clients, I can work with you to dress for you - your skin tone, your body type - not an arbitrary “handsome” standard.
I do not offer toxic pickup artist tricks, generic AI advice, or cheap “how to get any woman to fall for you” guides. I do not tell you who to be or what to become - I work with you to:
Understand what’s happening,
Identify what matters most, and
Build a dating approach that is authentic, intentional, and actually effective.
frequently asked questions
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A Dating Deep Dive is a fully-customisable coaching programme tailored for men who want lasting change in how they date, and who want to find their life partners.
Each Deep Dive includes:
A discovery call to identify your needs
A tailored proposal for you depending on your time, budget and goals
Either personal shopping, coaching sessions, practice dates, or all.
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After our discovery call, I will outline a fully-tailored proposal based on your needs, time and budget.
While every Deep Dive is different, I recommend around 1 session a week, with min. 6 sessions for real, lasting change.
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No. Coaching is strategy and honest feedback, not processing your childhood. Each session is structured and future-focused, meaning that you leave with a clear action plan and a confidence in your ability to make a change.
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No. Everything is fully private and confidential, and this will be captured in a signed agreement.
happy client reviews
the goal isn’t more dates.
it’s the right relationship for you.
Take the bold step and sign up for a free get-to-know-you call with Wan Ting. It includes:
analysis
Uncover where your biggest dating blockers are
clarity
Set goals for yourself that you want to attain
proposal
After the call, you will receive a proposal on clear actions we can take