private, 1-1 dating coaching for men:
first date / singles mixer sprints

From $399

Tired of asking what she does for work? Prepare for singles events or an important first date with practical coaching tailored to your goals.

Book your free discovery call now

navigate modern dating with more clarity, confidence, and direction.

Whether you're heading to a singles mixer or an important first date, each Sprint is designed around one goal: for you to show up as your best self, without pretending to be someone you're not.

what you’ll get:

✓ 30-min discovery call to understand your goals
✓ Personal Shopping session - to find outfits you’ll actually wear even beyond dates, OR
‍ ‍Profile Audit - to optimise your profile and get more matches
✓ Coaching conversation - unpack your values and beliefs about yourself and create an action plan for your next date / mixer
✓ Practice session - Apply what you’ve learnt and get immediate, real-time feedback from a woman so you walk into your next mixer / date with confidence

you’ll leave with:

✓ Clear ways to create conversations that feel natural, not rehearsed
✓ An understanding of what makes you attractive
✓ Practical strategies you can use immediately
✓ Outfits you'll actually want to wear again
✓ Confidence built on preparation, not guesswork

before

Hoping for chemistry

Small talk

Wearing your SG Uniqlo uniform

Wondering if you’re enough

Trying to impress

after

Creating real connection

Conversations people remember

Knowing what suits you

Knowing what you bring

Being genuinely interesting

designed around your goals

Every sprint begins with a conversation so we understand where you are and what's standing in the way.

We use the portmanteau framework to build your sprint around your priorities, based on:

  • 2h Personal Shopping session - Your personal style and wardrobe, with date outfits that actually flatter you and make you confident in yourself.

  • 45 min Conversation - Identify and work on any limiting beliefs you may have - whether it’s self-confidence, anxiety, or something else.

  • 45 min Practice Session - How to ask questions and hold a conversation that actually creates momentum, not just “how about you?”

why work with me?

I’m Wan Ting, ICF-trained coach, former HR professional, and founder of portmanteau. Over the years, I've worked with hundreds of people through recruitment, coaching, and image consulting.

✔️ Currently completing my ICF ACC accreditation - a globally-recognised coaching certification, which means every session is held to a rigorous, professional standard with structured frameworks.

✔️ Certified Image Consultant - with hundreds of happy clients, I can work with you to dress for you - your skin tone, your body type - not an arbitrary “handsome” standard.

I do not offer toxic pickup artist tricks, generic AI advice, or cheap “how to get any woman to fall for you” guides. I do not tell you who to be or what to become - I work with you to:

  • Understand what’s happening,

  • Identify what matters most, and

  • Build a dating approach that is authentic, intentional, and actually effective.

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frequently asked questions

  • A sprint is your personalised dating crash course before an important date or singles mixer.

    Each sprint includes:

    • A discovery call to identify your needs

    • One personal shopping session (2h)

    • One coaching sessions (45 min)

    • One practice date (45 min)

    Everyone’s coaching session will be different, depending on their goals and needs. (E.g. if you’re someone who struggles with expressing yourself, your goal will probably be very different from someone who tends to dominate a conversation.)

    (Option to add on more sessions available)

  • Each sprint can be completed in as quickly as one week or up to a month, depending on your schedule.

  • No. Coaching is strategy and honest feedback, not processing your childhood. Each session is structured and future-focused, meaning that you leave with a clear action plan and a confidence in your ability to make a change.

  • No. Everything is fully private and confidential, and this will be captured in a signed agreement.

happy client reviews

  • Wan Ting is warm, sincere, intelligent and perceptive. What I value most about our coaching conversations is her ability to help me see situations from entirely new perspectives through her thoughtful questioning. Through her guidance, I’ve been able to better understand my own thoughts and emotions, and work towards meaningful shifts that feel authentic and lasting. I would recommend Wan Ting to anyone looking for a thoughtful, insightful, and genuinely caring coach.

    -MW

  • She is an already excellent coach who is only going to keep on getting better.

    -MN

  • Unlike other coaches who can feel a tad too over professional and proper, I love that she came across to be with such warmth & care, like a friend. She ask questions that focuses on helping me to see above and beyond my situation and gave me space to just throw out my thoughts without me feeling that I'll be judged. & I can see how she will become an even better coach in the future!

    -C

  • During the shopping, she opened up the scope of what I'd normally think about with regards to choosing clothes to buy or wear. There was no pressure or judgement, and it felt like a supportive fashionable friend helping to glow-up my wardrobe, and it was a lot of fun! 👍

    -HY

  • I had an elevated positive experience with Wan Ting. Anyone who gets to work with Wan Ting is in good hands.

    -RT

  • Thank you so much for the session and the photos!! It's immensely helpful!

    -E

stop searching for “singles events in singapore”. make the next one count.

Take the bold step and sign up for a free discovery call with Wan Ting. It includes:

analysis

Uncover your biggest dating blockers

clarity

Set goals for yourself that you want to attain

proposal

After the call, you will receive a proposal on clear actions we can take

Let's go get her.